For 2009 I will live by 50 main rules (and off shoots of those rules). #1 and #2 are already out there, but here is the whole list. I will be keeping an offline journal to keep track of how I follow or break my rules. If anything fun pops up I will post it.
On your marks, get set, GO!:
1. Get my retailing under control
2. Don’t be pushy
3. Only do it if it makes me happy
4. Don’t be a perfectionist…failure is sometimes okay
5. Don’t internalize…no one likes a grumpy Dianna
6. Don’t do things out of boredom
7. Be 100% honest…with myself
8. If I want it, put it out there
9. Make it count
10. Complain less about things I can’t control
11. Don’t complain about things I have control over
12. Give and Take – make sure I do my part and they do theirs
13. Let go…and allow myself to be taken care of sometimes
14. Don’t downplay myself
15. Don’t blow myself out of proportion
16. Find the positive
17. Just be
18. Don’t do it tomorrow, do it today
19. Accept my faults….embrace them or improve them
20. Keep all my eggs OUT of one basket
21. Be my own best friend
22. Blame only myself…when I’m trying to find someone to blame
23. Don’t burden others with my excuses
24. Don’t be obsessive
25. Don’t blame the economy on my tough times…unless I lose my job again
26. Enjoy my successes
27. Accept outcomes…when I know I did 100% of what I could do
28. Really understand my wants versus my needs
29. 30 minutes to be down, depressed, or angry…then move on
30. Accpet my current life and stop looking for my path…it will come in time
31. Fight an urge with another urge
32. Be more dependent on people
33. Be less dependent on my parents
34. Find resources for EVERYTHING
35. Take risks
36. Be disconnected from the world sometimes…twitter, text messages, emails,and facebook will still be there
37. Take 30 for myself and give 30 to someone else…it can be anything
38. Indecisive is okay
39. Unfocused is not okay
40. Stop living in my own world
41. Express myself how I want….but in productive ways
42. Give advice only when asked
43. Don’t wait to be found
44. Don’t be complicated…because my life really isn’t
45. Embrace me
46. Attention for attention sake is not good.
47. Be bored sometimes
48. Be less attached to my cell phone
49. Say yes
50. Be the change